Warband is the second one!
Fun game, lots of CoA'ers play it. Mount and Musket is pretty fun if you have a Saturday night free.
First off, a paladin is a choosen warrior of a god. Not a divine champion but instead the god recognized them or choose them for some purpose or reason that serves the faith.
I disagree with this. Paladins choose to be paladins just as often as they feel a calling. Paladins are not common, but they are not hyper special rare people. They are warriors who uphold a strict code of honor (or in the case of CE and some CG, dishonor).